Lessons in conflict resolution from a tabletop roleplaying gamer

When I’m sitting at a table playing games with my friends, a few recurring themes appear.

🔮 “Let me get this straight…”
🙂‍↕️ “Yes, and…” (my theater/improv people will know this one)
➡️ “Wow, a spectacular failure. How can I keep the momentum going?”
✅ “Is everyone having a good experience? Now is a good time to check in.”

To nobody’s surprise, these same themes appear in the workplace.

🔮 Clarity of communication

Tabletop game players and GMs alike will know that sometimes, you have to break the fourth wall and clarify plans, align strengths, and advance the scene. Figuring out how players’ strengths work together is a great way to move a story forward.
In work meetings, being on the same page with the rest of your team relies on clear communication. (Good notetaking doesn’t hurt, either!)

🙂‍↕️ Cooperation, not control

“Yes, and” is a key component of improv theater, comedy, and collaborative storytelling. As GM and player, I don’t halt others’ narratives. I validate their direction first, then build on it.
Leading with affirmation and setting a path forward is a standout collaboration skill.

➡️ Failing forward

If every bad roll ended the story, RPGs wouldn’t be so popular. Instead, TTRPGs give us the chance to create a world where failing doesn’t mean it’s the end. By flexing these skills, we give ourselves a more positive outlook on everyday scenarios.
Disagreements and negotiations in the workplace can be springboards for something greater, if we redirect ourselves towards a better solution.

✅ Facilitation & empathy

Collaborative storytelling builds in moments to pause, reflect, and shift direction. If players are finding a session boring, or finding that a story arc is dragging, then they should feel comfortable letting the GM know that it’s time for a change of pace. In some circumstances, players may even need to resolve direct conflicts between their respective player characters (PCs).
Effective teams keep the feedback loop open, ready to share positive and constructive feedback in ways that encourage perspective-sharing.

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